As I sit here on a vacation week on the eve of a new year, I was thinking about how new beginnings can start anytime. They are not restricted by age, stage or calendar dates. They are much more determined by attitude and intentionality.
What new adventure do you want to start this year?
For those who know us, Nan and I are definitely of “retirement age”, but not of a retirement mindset. It is not our goal to live a life of leisure, but rather a more leisurely life in some aspects of our daily living, but not all. We are excited about what God has put before us and want to take full advantage of the years we have.
For some of you, you may have been living a more leisurely life and it’s time to fire up the engine and get moving. There are many things that are much easier to start building at a younger age. For others, you have pressed the gas pedal too hard, and it’s time to hit the brakes and look around and perhaps change direction.
Both Nan and I did this early in our relationship. She shifted from teaching to starting a new direction as a marriage and family therapist. I refocused from a career as a musician to a businessman and then counselor. What have you been itching to do but need to make changes to do it?
I am not just talking about career. Have you put off friendships, relationships or spiritual pursuits because you “haven’t got the time”? I know some people have pushed these things forward expecting they will always be there when they want them. But that is not always true. We cannot depend on being able to order our world the way we want it. We can try, but there are no guarantees. It’s not bad to be impatient for the really important things.
New life skills?
I want to continue as a learner. I have always been an avid reader, but now with YouTube it is easier than ever to learn all kinds of new and often practical skills. I am not necessarily encouraging solitary pursuits – some things are best learned in community. But rather I am advocating an attitude of personal as well as corporate growth. What new life skills do you want to pick up?
How about an adventure into gratitude, generosity and hospitality? Have you put those things off for later in your life? I know I struggle to balance those things out and continue to fight to gain ground against their opposites. It seems easy for me to go negative and scared rather than optimistic and courageous. But new adventures can’t be based on fear and pessimism – at least not worthwhile ones. So join me!
Blessings to you and your adventures in the new year.